Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Will this blog exist after this week?

I've censored the following, in protest of a bill that gives any corporation and the US government the power to censor the internet--a bill that could pass THIS WEEK. To see the uncensored text, and to stop internet censorship, visit: http://americancensorship.org/posts/25201/uncensor

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The way ████ it ████ ████ ██████ ████ is ████ you ████ be ██████ █████ ██████ ████████. ████████████, a ███████ █████ can ███████ ████████ ████ the ████ of a ██████ web ████ is to █████ for the ██████ ████'s ███████ and ████ the ██████ web ████ ████ ████. For ████████, █████ are fan ██████ I ████ to █████ ████ ████ ███████ █████ and ██████ ████ ████ █████ ██████. I █████ █████ was an ██████ ███████ of █████ ██████ the █████ █████ ███████. ████ you, the █████ are ███████ ███████████, and ███████ are ████ the █████ had a ███████████ in the US ████ ████ the ██████ to it. So say a █████████ in ███████ ███████ to ████ a ███████ █████ █████ ██████ ████ ███████, and █████ ████ ███████ ████ ████. It is ████, and it █████. He ███████ to █████ the █████ ████ ████ ██████ ███████████ via his ███████ ███████. BAM! 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All ████ █████ ████, I don't ████ to try ███████ one of █████████ in the ███████ ████ my ██████ and ██████, and ███████ a 404 █████ ███████ one of the ███████ at ███████████ ███████ to ████ ███████ ██████'s ████████. And I ██████████ don't ████ to be ██████ $100/█████ ████ ████ for █████ ████████ ███████.

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Wednesday, September 21, 2011

I am not a selfish prick for being a parent

     I know it's been a while since I posted anything, but that's because lately I've been doing other things that matter to me as much as my writing.  Today's post is a rebuttal specifically to this post, and generally to this post, both written by

     "As always, I agree completely! Very well said! I love that you mentioned the childfree being excellent at conversation. I was stuck with a bunch of women with kids at a party last weekend and all they talked about was pics of their kids and different child photographers. Dull! They were so involved and selfish about it, they didn't even notice I was there. Or so it seemed. I have witnessed the selfishness of parents so many times. They feel they deserve more and take priority because 'we have kids'."


"the myth that until a person becomes a parent, s/he doesn't know what love is and doesn't know what it means to be a giving, selfless person."  I honestly agree with this.  It's an utter load of horse manure that a person can't know true love without being a parent.  I know many people who for one reason or another don't have children, and they are all normal, healthy, sane, caring, giving people.  Love, to be blunt, is a set of chemical reactions in your brain tied to specific memories and events that all tie together to form a feeling you get.  It is entirely possible, and even probable, that a person will know love prior to ever becoming a parent.  The reverse is true, too.  It's possible to be a parent and not know true love.  It all depends on your experiences prior to either event happening.  Were you raised in a home with parents who cared for you, supported you, and made sure that you knew the difference between right and wrong?  Then you knew true love right off the bat.  Did you or do you have a friend that no matter what happens, you'll be there for them?  You know true love.  I could fill a book with the examples that don't entail being a parent.  As a father, I can honestly say that since my child was born out of the love that my wife and I share, and that I would do anything to ensure his well-being, I love him.
     However there were a few points which I have to disagree with both in the first and second posts.  The first of those is that you state that it is not selfless to meet one's responsibilities.  It depends on the circumstances.  I am obligated by law and my own moral code to feed, clothe, educate, and not be negligent to the recipient of my wife's and my genetic material.  However, I am not obligated in any way, shape or form to do more than that.  But I do, because I love my son.  I love watching the smile on this face when he mimics something that I do, or when he does something completely on his own that his little baby brain finds amazing.  I read to my son because it brings him joy.  Sure, I could just put him in his playpen and play video games, watch movies, etc, but I willingly postpone things I enjoy doing until he is asleep or having quality mommy time so that I can spend quality time with him to ensure he knows that his daddy loves him very much.  You also state that a truly selfless person looks around, identifies problems that existing people have and gives of themselves to help them.  Is it impossible for me to be selfless as a father and as a person in general?  I think not, as my primary job is an unpaid one where I volunteer my time to assist those with problems.  I don't seem to have an issue balancing being a caring father and a resource guide to those in need.  I know at least 150 more people who are in the same boat I am that have that issue either.  Therefore I submit that your statement that meeting your responsibilities is not selfless is false if it is applied to everyone in general.
     You also state that parents are in many ways more selfish than non-parents, and that non-parents are in many ways more selfless.  I'll state right now that my wife and I chose to become parents because we wanted a child.  It's as simple as that.  We're both healthy, young, adults who are compatible with each other in pretty much every way that there can be, and we decided to turn our love for each other into a child.  Did my son ask to be born?  No.  Will he regret the life we've given him?  Only time will tell, but hopefully not.  Did we decide to have a baby because we wanted a miniature version of ourselves running around the house?  HELL no.  It is our intent to introduce our son to art, literature, history, science, music, and a myriad of other subjects.  And when he starts showing signs of critical thinking, we're going to start asking him to make decisions about what he likes.  If he likes something we do, great.  If not, also great, because it means that he is capable of choosing for himself.  If my son decides he doesn't like sports, I'm not going to shove them down his throat.  I might be disappointed that he doesn't want to watch football or play catch with me, but I will try to encourage his other interests and take an interest in what he does, even if it's not something I personally find interesting.  So tell me again how that's selfish of me?  And just because I have a child it doesn't mean that I won't be able to advance in my chosen field or spend time doing things I enjoy.  Yes, I will have to plan more carefully, but that is a choice I made when my wife and I decided to bring a child into this world.  Having a child means that I will have to work harder in order to get noticed at work.  Having a child might mean that I have to go through a complicated scheduling dance to spend time with friends if they want to do an adults only activity, but I had to do that before I had a child due to the nature of the field that I used to, and will in the future, work in.  There's no change there.  If a friend truly needs me, then they won't mind if I bring my son along.  I'm capable of entertaining my son while a friend get's his/her car fixed.  Not only that, but I ENJOY entertaining my son.  And if I get to do so while helping someone else, so much the better.
     You state that those without children are better employees.  Not in my book.  If you're a good parent, you're also good at time management.  You have to be able to make dinner and pay attention to your child at the same time.  You have to be able to talk on the phone while paying attention to your child.
People without children are better conversationalists?  HA!  Where did you hear that?  In my circle of friends, I'd say that about 85% of them have children.  When any number of us get together, the topics usually cover a wide range of things, and -gasp- most of them aren't child related!  Sports?  Check.  Current events?  Check.  Politics?  You got it.  New art exhibit?  Only if it's something we're interested in seeing.  Best beaches on the island?  Always.  New technology?  That is almost always a topic of conversation because we're all technophiles in one way or another.  Gossip about our different jobs, interesting anecdotes, funny stories, pretty much nothing is taboo as a topic of conversation.  And yes, we talk about our children too, because everyone in my circle of friends loves their children.
     I also want to point out that you said being parents makes married couples less happy because they aren't able to fully love, support, and appreciate their spouses.  Really?  Since becoming parents, both my wife and I have grown closer than we were pre-parenthood.  I don't know, maybe we're an oddity.  Except that I know lots of people who seem to have grown closer as well since having children.  Having a child is a bonding experience for couples.  You get to see sides of your partner that you never knew existed.  If your relationship is strong, you grow closer for having seen those facets of their personality.  If not, then yes, your relationship will be put under strain.  How you deal with that strain is up to you though.
     In the second post I linked, you give 100 reasons not to have kids.  While a small few are valid points, the bulk of that list is for selfish reasons.  Be able to veg on the couch all weekend and not be judged?  Really?  Be able to eat what you want, when you want?  Not have to sit through "school-related drudgery?"  Those sound like selfish reasons to me.  So what if I am interested in how my child does in school?  Just because that doesn't sound interesting to you, that does not mean it isn't to me.  Be able to indulge in your interests without distraction?  I may not be a masters level chef, but I enjoy cooking, and am somehow able to produce different, interesting and delightful dishes each night, all while entertaining a child.  Watching TV shows or movies without constant interruption?  Doesn't seem to be a problem.  I may not get to watch House when it airs each week, but I do get to watch it uninterrupted.  So what if I don't get to go to a movie on opening night.  I didn't do that before we had a child, so what challenge does that pose.  Doesn't this post almost completely invalidate your thought that those without children are more selfless?  I guess it just depends on your perspective.
     Wrapping up, I applaud you for making the choice not to have children.  It proves that you are a rational, sane human being capable of making your own choices.  However I think it unfair of you to demonize people for choosing to have children.  Responsible child bearing will not contribute to societal decay or the over-population of our planet.  Responsible parents don't drive gas-guzzlers.  Responsible, caring, loving parents raise children that might one day be running this country, or be the doctor who saves your life, or even be the nice orderly in your retirement community who brings you fresh flowers every week because it makes you happy.  And sure, some parents can be over bearing, because most parents tend to think of their children as precious little unique snowflakes that everyone should cherish.  Polite parents don't shove their kids down everyone's throat though.  So before you make generalizations about how having kids ruins parents, please take into account that there are parents who are perfectly happy, and capable of contributing to their communities, work places, and the general betterment of everyone around them.

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Abercrombie tells the NFL to suck it

The interwebs seem to be aflutter lately about a press conference that Hawaii's governor held this past Thursday.  In it, he stated that he couldn't see spending $4M on the NFL Pro Bowl every year, when that money could be sent to education programs.  Most of the comments are from people who apparently didn't take high school economics.

2009 was the first time that the Pro Bowl was not held here in Hawaii since it's inception.  This pissed a lot of people off, because every year prior, it had been a sold out game.  So come 2010, a deal was reached by then Honolulu mayor Mufi Hanneman to bring the Pro Bowl back to our little island, to the tune of $4M per game  to come from state taxes.

So, here's how the numbers broke down for the 2010 game:
 - Number of visitors to the state for the game: 17,000
 - Total amount of revenue generated from the game: $28.15M
 - Amount the state received back from the game: $3.07M

Now let me get this straight...  Are these people advocating that we should throw away $993K/year, just so we have the privilege of hosting an NFL game that has absolutely no standing with regards to the players, the season, or the post season?  If I'm correct, this game is literally just a way for my state to feel like we're included in the NFL because our total population is too small to warrant having an actual NFL team.  No wonder the Governor wants that money to go to education.  Hawaii already has the shortest school year in the nation (163 days), in addition to having one of the poorest funded public education systems.  Now in terms of education $4M might not be much, but it's $4M more than they're getting now.  Maybe it will teach people that spending $4M to make back only $3.07M is a poor investment.  Of course, if we're already at the panem et circenses stage, then maybe said people just don't care.

Monday, May 2, 2011

Bin Laden is dead... Now what?

I promised myself I wouldn't say anything about it, but I have to.  I've been reading reactions from people celebrating that Osama Bin Laden is dead.

Yes, it's true that he was the leader of an organization responsible for some of the most devastating attacks against US citizens in recorded history.  And yes, it's true that it will probably take some time for Al Queda to regroup.  I estimate it will take...  Oh wait.  They've already started?  Yep.  A pipe bomb was found this morning on the Coronado Bridge.*  And one of their ideologues has promised retribution against the US.

So, let me tell everyone what they can celebrate.  We have killed a man who was seeking revenge against us for abandoning his cause back in the 80's.  The problem was, he happened be charismatic enough to inspire others to follow him in his revenge using religious propaganda.  Al Queda is not one of those movie terrorist organizations that will simply crumble because we have killed their leader.  What we have done is martyr him to his followers.  Not only his current followers, but now thousands of other Muslims who otherwise may not have have gotten involved.  With the attacks on the US, Bin Laden catapulted himself from mere terrorist to figurehead for a movement.  What we have done is catapulted him from figurehead to martyr, a reason in and of itself for attacking the US and it's citizens.

For years, Al Queda has been our bogeyman, and Bin Laden was the face of that monster.  Now Al Queda is a faceless monster, the kind that is even more terrifying.  There will be people who will be screaming his name as they willingly blow themselves up in just the hopes that they will get a chance to take a few US citizens with them in retribution for his death.

So go ahead.  Celebrate the fact that we have gotten our revenge against the mastermind behind the 9/11 and USS Cole attacks.  But be ever vigilant against the attacks to come.  For those saying that they wish they "had been the one to execute Bin Laden," I say this to you.  Remember the cost it took to do so.  Remember the lives of the military members who have died on this road to revenge of ours.  And for those who are thinking that now Bin Laden is dead we can relax and have some of those freedoms back that were taken away in the interest of safety and security, remember that the threat is still out there, and as long as there is a perceived threat, the government will not relent in it's pursuit of safety and security.



*EDIT: Special thanks to my friend for catching me on my blunder.  It was not in fact a pipe bomb.  Full story is here.